~ BAOTVMTCHII ~ Being Aware Of The Various Mistakes That Create Havoc Is Insufficient
~ SADASRITFSTACCIORAE ~ Straightforward And Deliberate And Systematic Rethinking Is The First Step Toward A Constructive Change In Our Feelings And Emotions
~ WHTCOBIWRWTCOL ~ We Have To Change Our Behaviors If We Really Wish To Change Our Lives
~ KOT-‘W’-INSIOREC ~ Knowledge Of The – “Why” – Is Not Sufficient In Order To Effect Change
~ CDNHTTALT ~ Change Does Not Have To Take A Long Time
~ QCCBDAP ~ Quick Change Can Be Deep And Permanent
~ CIWP ~ Change Is Always Possible
~ IIN-‘TL’-FC ~ It Is Never – “Too Late” – To Change
~ PCCFPSITHANRTPWTHOTH ~ Psychological Change Calls For Problem-Solving In The Here And Now Rather Than Preoccupation With The Hereafter Or The Heretofore
~ AGWTLSYITTO ~ A Good Way To Learn Something Yourself Is To Teach Others
~ TPMBI ~ The Problem Must Be Identified
~ TPTSCBDATPMBA ~ The Possibility That Something Can Be Done About The Problem Must Be Accepted
~ ADTCMBE ~ A Desire To Change Must Be Expressed
~ TCRE ~ To Change Requires Effort
~ OOTMWOLITM ~ One Of The Major Ways Of Learning Is Through Mistakes
~ PHTCTCITDTW ~ People Have The Capacity To Change In The Direction They Wish
~ ‘IM’-A-‘IHT’-AM-‘ICT’ ~ “I Must” – And – “I Have To” – Actually Mean – “I Choose To”
~ OCEDMCBADSRTBAEO ~ One Can Express Displeasure More Constructively By A Direct Statement Rather Than By An Emotional Outburst
~ GAISADOEADNLTG ~ Getting Angry Is Simply A Discharge Of Emotions And Does Not Lead To Growth
~ GAIGAAOFTCWOSAP ~ Getting Angry Is Generally An Acknowledgment Of Failure To Cope With Or Solve A Problem
~ NTDBAAA ~ Note The Difference Between Assertion And Aggression
~ TAMPWORTTSS ~ There Are Many Possible Ways Of Reacting To The Same Situation
~ CLTAAWASTB ~ Consider Long Term Advantages As Well As Short-Term Benefits
~ NGNRIB-IIBTGAR ~ Neither Giving Nor Receiving Is Better – It Is Best To Give And Receive
~ TCOADAHEOWYFATWSYUA ~ The Cultivation Of A Direct And Honest Expression Of What You Feel And Think Will Spare You Untold Anguish
~ TIABDB-F/T-OTOH-A-B/O/T/P-OTO ~ There Is A Big Difference Between – Fact/Truth – On The One Hand – And – Belief/Opinion/Taste/Preference – On The Other
~ COHFIOWAYI ~ Concentrate On Having Fun Instead Of Worrying About Your Image
~ OP(ITGAITW)MBR-BTMABW ~ Other People (Including The Greatest Authorities In The World) May Be Right – But They May Also Be Wrong
~ NOCHYWW ~ No One Can Hurt You With Words
~ NOHTPTUY ~ No One Has The Power To Upset You
~ TTCTIPOBA-TTINTD ~ To Think Crazy Thoughts Is Part Of Being Alive – The Thought Is Not The Deed