TOM HODGKINSON ~ HOW TO BE IDLE

~ NOIERTU-B-LIBHA-IPBTHAH ~ Not Only Is Early Rising Totally Unnatural – But – Lying In Bed Half-Awake – Is Positively Beneficial To Health And Happiness

~ GALRANB-LRIFTIOM-TIWRTBAST-WMA ~ Greatness And Late Rising Are Natural Bedfellows – Late Rising Is For The Independent Of Mind – The Individual Who Refuses To Become A Slave To – Work, Money, Ambition

~ IOTHIATTPHTRTI-CPNTT-AMSIOOTBTTDT ~ In Order To Have Ideas And Then To Plan How To Realize Those Ideas – Creative People Need Thinking Time – And Morning Snoozing Is One Of The Best Times To Do This

~ TIOT‘J’ATATAW-IAS-IOOTMPMOMS ~ The Idea Of The ‘Job’ As The Answer To All Woes – Individual And Social – Is One Of The Most Pernicious Myths Of Modern Society

~ WWETIWOWWASSATHWET ~ When We Enter The Ignoble World Of Work We Are Soon Shocked At The Humiliations We Encounter There

~ TJWIIOTMTEFTATT-WIHW-FOP ~ The Job Was Invented In Order To Make Things Easier For Those At The Top – Who Believed In Hard Work – For Other People

~ WKTMPPY-YISN‘WOW’BD ~ Work Kills Two Million People Per Year – Yet I See No ‘War On Work’ Being Declared

~ IIPTPUFTTMTSPUATGOOB-ICLT-TTT-AVOTT-ACIOTHOOFDW ~ It Is Precisely To Prevent Us From Thinking Too Much That Society Pressurizes Us All To Get Out Of Bed – Introspection Could Led To – That Terrible Thing – A Vision Of The Truth – A Clear Image Of The Horror Of Our Fractured, Dissonant World

~ GDNLTI-TIWT ~ Governments Do Not Like The Idle – The Idle Worry Them

~ HMBLWBIWBTDWAPRTTEPON-WTDOFHEAJ ~ How Much Better Life Would Be If We Began The Day With A Poem Rather Than The Empty Prattle Of Newspapers – With Their Diet Of Fear, Hate, Envy And Jealousy

~ I-V-THRTBVBTCOO-TEAO-THCT ~ Idlers – Visionaries – They Have Refused To Be Victimized By The Customs Of Others – Their Eyes Are Open – They Have Created Time

~ TDOPISOAIFOSIABM ~ The Deferral Of Pleasure In Service Of An Imaginary Future Of Stability Is A Bourgeois Myth

~ KN ~ Keeping Nix

~ SM-ATOIS-ABUI-TBTW-OATWOTE ~ Saint Monday – A Tradition Of Institutionalized Skiving – A Bottom-Up Initiative – Taken By The Worker – Often Against The Will Of The Employers

~ WNTCLB-IIONR-IHBSFUBOR-LIATTFABSPE ~ We Need To Claim Lunch Back – It Is Our Natural Right – It Has Been Stolen From Us By Our Rulers – Lunch Is A Time To Forget About Being Sensible, Practical, Efficient

~ TBICBADWTRLITIAFWKTAYC ~ That Being Ill Can Be A Delightful Way To Recapture Lost Idling Time Is A Fact Well Known To All Young Children

~ TIOCWTETPOBIBTTOTAIOT-AATTGOSBUA ~ The Idea Of Convalescence Was To Extend The Period Of Being Ill Beyond The Time Of The Actual Illness Or Trauma – And Allow Time To Get One’s Strength Back Up Again

~ TN ~ The Nap

~ IPEN ~ In Paradise Everyone Naps

~ ANIAPPAIU-ISTDITH-MEHMMAE ~ A Nap Is A Perfect Pleasure And It’s Useful – It Splits The Day Into Two Halves – Making Each Half More Manageable And Enjoyable

~ HMEIITWITM-IWKWHANTLFTAL ~ How Much Easier It Is To Work In The Morning – If We Know We Have A Nap To Look Forward To After Lunch

~ TFT ~ Time For Tea

~ POD-FB-LRP ~ Paroxysms Of Diligence – Followed By – Long Rest Periods

~ TR-TPITHAMMOB-WFP-OBDNI-INIAH-WDWAMG-F ~ The Ramble – The Pedestrian Is The Highest And Most Mighty Of Beings – Walks For Pleasure – Observes But Does Not Interfere – Is Not In A Hurry – Wanders Detached, Wise And Merry, Godlike – Free

~ B-TWTMSH-BTDRCWII-TITBOO-WIWITTB-NCWDTT-ACTTFUPITDTAW ~ Botherers – They Want To Make Something Happen – But They Don’t Really Care What It Is – They Impose Their Beliefs On Others – What Is Worse Is That The Botherers – Not Content With Doing Things Themselves – Are Constantly Trying To Force Us Poor Idlers To Do Things As Well

~ AIIATAADAIFI ~ An Idler Is A Thinker And A Dreamer And Is Fiercely Independent

~ WCUWTIOTSWAIOG-WCBMITORTTSS? ~ Whoever Came Up With The Idea Of The Strike Was An Idler Of Genius – What Could Be More Irritating To Our Rulers Than To Simply Stop?

~ S&I ~ Sex And Idleness

~ TAOC-TSIAS-WFOAN-TITLOTL-IEICAEICOTABTAC ~ The Art Of Conversation – Talking, Sharing Ideas And Stories – With Friends Old And New – This Is The Lifeblood Of The Loafer – Ideas Emerge In Conversation And Are Embellished, Improved, Contradicted Or Torn Apart By The Assembled Company

~ DDI-TAI-ITTTAIWD-TIWGDOIOT ~ Don’t Do It – Talk About It – If The Thing Talked About Is Worth Doing – Then It Will Get Done On Its Own Time

~ TAOTTCDOORTP ~ The Authorities Occasionally Try To Crack Down On Our Right To Party

~ YHPOOTBML-SWNEYN-WAEWAP0SMTNTBE ~ You Have Plenty Of Opportunity To Be Miserable Later – So Why Not Enjoy Yourself Now – We Are Equipped With A Pleasure-Seeking Muscle That Needs To Be Exercised

~ TTIWTLAGLATT-NJOSN ~ The True Idler Wants To Live A Good Life All The Time – Not Just On Saturday Nights

~ HSPIOHTL-ISNBAMOLII-AIIU ~ Hedonism Should Provide Ideas On How To Live – It Should Not Become A Mode Of Living In Itself – As It Is Unsustainable

~ TINPFOITM ~ There Is No Purer Form Of Idleness Than Meditation

~ SIADP-APO-AGU-ABQ ~ Sleep Is A Delicious Procrastination – A Putting-Off – A Giving Up – A Big Quit

~ SINFW-SIFTSB-TGO-THOTKTH-TI ~ Sleep Is Not For Wimps – Sleep Is For The Stronger Breed – The Great Ones – The Holders Of The Key To Happiness – The Idle

~ IWCBHWLS-DINTFTWWHTWL-AWWNLM? ~ If We Could Be Happier With Less Stuff – Does It Not Then Follow That We Would Have To Work Less – As We Would Need Less Money?

~ AOT-WAPWMI-TIOAHAAEFTHOWIARRI ~ At One Time – Work And Play Were More Intermingled – The Idea Of A Holiday As An Escape From The Hell Of Work Is A Relatively Recent Idea

~ LIACCFGCPTETSTTPOEICPAOAAO ~ Living In A Constant Chase For Gain Compels People To Expend Their Spirit To The Point Of Exhaustion In Continual Pretence And Overreaching And Anticipating Others

~ OSMBFITNOOPL ~ One Solution May Be Found In The Notion Of Off-Peak Living

~ IWITMAHAHEA ~ I Work In The Morning And Have A Holiday Every Afternoon

~ WYALAIL-YHNTTEF ~ When You Are Living An Idle Life – You Have No Toil To Escape From

~ IINWTTTIMRFTWNOTH-FIAHANMTTBOW? ~ It Is No Wonder That The True Idler Might Recoil From The Whole Notion Of The Holiday – For Isn’t A Holiday Actually No More Than The Brother Of Work?

~ HTIAHSFTD-HCTBTAU-WTUOVAFAAWOT ~ How The Idle At Heart Suffer For Their Dreaming – How Cruel The Bureaucrats, Teachers And Usurers – Who Tell Us Our Visions And Fancies Are A Waste Of Time

~ TRT-ITDOESI-ITBTTWT-THDAD ~ The Real Trick – Indeed The Duty Of Every Serious Idler – Is To Bring These Two Worlds Together – To Harmonize Dreamworld And Dayworld

~ WABOOD-TAAOC-LTT-PIIPBDAFTWPSLAVOT ~ We Are Based On Dreams – They Are At Our Centre – Listen To Them – Perhaps It Is Precisely Because Dreams Are Free That We Put So Low A Value On Them

~ IHAD-ICLAF ~ I Have A Dream – It Is Called Love, Anarchy, Freedom – It Is Called Being Idle

BRUCE SCHNEIER ~ LIARS AND OUTLIERS ~ 2012

~ SOUAMCMHMAAF-ASOUALS-TIODSS-WHTFTSBDS ~ Some Of Us Are More Cooperative, More Honest, More Altruistic, And Fairer – And Some Of Us Are Less So – There Isn’t One Dominant Survival Strategy – We Have The Flexibility To Switch Between Different Strategies

~ TWABAGOPWWTTTWGB-TBWCHFITDWOBD-AWENED-KTPDTATL ~ There Will Always Be A Group Of People Who Will Try To Take Without Giving Back – The Best We Can Hope For Is To Do What Our Bodies Do – And What Every Natural Ecosystem Does – Keep Those Parasites Down To A Tolerable Level

~ WDKTAIATDBOIAM-KPAMLTR ~ We Do Know That Agreeableness Is A Trait Desired By Others In A Mate – Kind People Are More Likely To Reproduce

~ O-AHRDSB-NIIAPWPTHITBO-S-AISOLMHMT ~ Oxytocin – A Hormone Released During Social Bonding – Naturally Increases In A Person Who Perceives That He/Her Is Trusted By Others – Similarly – Artificially Increasing Someone’s Oxytocin Level Makes Her/Him More Trusting

~ MARCOPTOSP-TAIAOABCASLIOB-DTPO-WVAGD-THH-ATEAODWBD-TAMARSHWAW ~ Morals And Reputation Comprise Our Prehistoric Toolbox Of Societal Pressures – They Are Informal And Operate At Both Conscious And Subconscious Levels In Our Brains – Despite The Prevalence Of – War, Violence And General Deceptiveness – Throughout Human History – And The Enormous Amount Of Damage Wrought By Defectors – These Ancient Moral And Reputational Systems Have Worked Amazingly Well

~ MPWBISG ~ Moral Pressure Works Best In Small Groups

~ RPWWISAMSG ~ Reputational Pressure Works Well In Small- And Medium-Sized Groups

~ IPWBILSG ~ Institutional Pressure Works Best In Larger-Sized Groups

~ ‘DUOWYWHTDUY’-DGHTOUS-IBADTCWO-IRITCTTAUMPOSH ~ “Do Unto Others What You Would Have Them Do Unto You” – Different Groups Have Their Own Unique Spin – It’s Basically An Admonition To Cooperate With Others – It Really Is The Closest Thing To A Universal Moral Principle Our Species Has

~ WDNOAOMCADORAWFTG:TGATCACADAWIMTAIATM ~ We Not Only Absorb Our Moral Codes And Definitions Of Right And Wrong From The Group: The Group Also Transmits Cues About Cooperation And Defection And What It Means To Act In A Trustworthy Manner

~ PAMLTSTSIIFOTGI-ITFTOADSAW-ATLLTDSITFTOATAOT-OISOF ~ People Are More Likely To Suppress Their Self-Interest In Favor Of The Group Interest – If They Feel That Others Are Doing So As Well – And They’re Less Likely To Do So If They Feel That Others Are Taking Advantage Of Them – Our Innate Sense Of Fairness

~ WGDMSFTG-ALAWASF ~ We Generally Don’t Mind Sacrificing For The Group – As Long As We’re All Sacrificing Fairly

~ MSB-TFASBLATMTTBTMW ~ Morals Scale Badly – They Fail As Societies Become Larger And The Moral Ties That Bind Their Members Weaken

~ TALORODD-HSNTBVGAI-TAEAPCLTBBAI-BIG-WCTLFTT ~ There’s A Lot Of Research On Detecting Deception – Humans Seem Not To Be Very Good At It – There Are Exceptions And People Can Learn To Be Better At It – But In General – We Can’t Tell Liars From Truth-Tellers

~ WRNIAPMV-WMD-AFALTPI-ISTKWWDIMITKWTT ~ We Remember Negative Information About People More Vividly – With More Detail – And For A Longer Time – Than Positive Information – It Seems That Knowing Who Will Defect Is More Important Than Knowing Whom To Trust

~ NODWGORAB-WATPTAOGR ~ Not Only Do We Guard Our Reputation Against Blemishes – We Also Take Pains To Advertise Our Good Reputation

~ TMOH-CWALP-RMIW-ARWL ~ Throughout Most Of History – Commerce Was A Local Phenomenon – Reputation Made It Work – And Reputation Was Local

~ OOTWTSRITGBOGM ~ One Of The Ways To Scale Reputation Is To Generalize Based On Group Membership

~ NEITWAMLTTPWLLU-AWNCOPOSABLTMTAU-UTTFITG ~ Numerous Experiments Indicate That We Are More Likely To Trust People Who Look Like Us – And We Naturally Change Our Patterns Of Speech And Body Language To Mimic Those Around Us – Unconsciously Trying To Fit Into The Group

~ TAASORWSIABSFJIP-AFTRSHSTGBOMBI ~ There Are All Sorts Of Reasons Why Stereotyping Is A Bad System For Judging Individual People – And For Those Reasons We Should Strive To Get Beyond Our More Base Instincts

~ RIAESPSUIHC-RCAPD ~ Reputation Isn’t An Effective Societal Pressure System Unless It Has Consequences – Reward Cooperators And Punish Defectors

~ HAASS-WR-BAOTPITG-WAPD-EITCP ~ Humans Are A Social Species – We Reward – By Allowing Others To Participate In The Group – We Also Punish Defectors – Exclusion Is The Corresponding Punishment

~ SIACRP-A-AAR-AISE ~ Shame Is A Common Reputational Punishment – And – As A Result – An Important Social Emotion

~ IPASCWCMTIWNPA ~ Informal Punishments Are So Common We Can Miss Them If We’re Not Paying Attention

~ CTSALOTMRS-TEASO-PFAOA-S-TCTVTTHAGRB-AA-BC-A-ET ~ Confidence Tricksters Spend A Lot Of Time Manipulating Reputation Signals – They Employ All Sorts Of – Props, Facades, And Other Actors – Shills – To Convince Their Victims That They Have A Good Reputation By – Appearing Authentic – Building Confidence – And – Encouraging Trust

~ SPSDCAR ~ Some People Simply Don’t Care About Reputation

~ SPEUWTWR ~ Some People End Up With The Wrong Reputation

~ TMIRRPSTFIT-GGTL ~ The Most Important Reason Reputational Pressure Starts To Fail Is That – Groups Get Too Large

~ WWKA-CCAPIFP-DAMR ~ What We Know About – Celebrities, Corporations And People In Faraway Places – Doesn’t Always Match Reality

~ LCBAI-ILA-OCAUA-TASAU ~ Laws Can Be Applied Inconsistently – If Laws Aren’t – Objective, Common, And Universally Applied – They Are Seen As Unfair

~ OLATRTSACBOBT ~ Our Learned Abilities To Read Trust Signals Are Continually Being Overtaken By Technology

~ UIDS-CMIFMP-BASSIDCBUIMMP-S-A-HTF-IDIER-BIITMMPTF ~ Universal ID Systems – Can Make Impersonation Fraud More Profitable – Because A Single Stolen ID Can Be Used In Many More Places – Sometimes – A – Harder-To-Forge ID Is Even Riskier – Because It Is That Much More Profitable To Forge

~ WMALOOIWOP-FESS-IDCSTS ~ We’re Moving A Lot Of Our Interactions With Other People – From Evolved Social Systems – Into Deliberately Created Socio-Technical Systems

~ WASTLWGACWWT-ATWACBMAM-PMUTGMAAFOR ~ We Are Starting To Learn Which Genes Are Correlated With Which Traits – And This Will Almost Certainly Be Misreported And Misunderstood – People May Use These Genetic Markers As A Form Of Reputation

~ CSDRTNSOA-RITRWSTATIASSDFEE-GIAOIC-ACIONDIA ~ Competing Societal Dilemmas Represent The Normal State Of Affairs – Rarely Is The Real World So Tidy As To Isolate A Single Societal Dilemma From Everything Else – Group Interests Are Often In Conflict – And Cooperating In One Necessitates Defecting In Another

GEORGE AKERLOF + ROBERT SHILLER ~ PHISHING FOR PHOOLS ~ 2015

~ P-GPTDTTAITIOTP-B-NITIOTT ~ Phish – Getting People To Do Things That Are In The Interests Of The Phisher – But – Not In The Interest Of The Target

~ P-SW-FWR-ISP ~ Phool – Someone Who – For Whatever Reasons – Is Successfully Phished

~ PFS-AFFOELHNMIITET-NOWTGTBANWATB-YMPD ~ Personal Financial Insecurity – A Fundamental Fact Of Economic Life Has Never Made It Into The Economics Textbooks – No One Wants To Go To Bed At Night Worried About The Bills – Yet Most People Do

~ BP-CSLTC-‘BP’-TMTCF-SSAF-YNOWTBO ~ Big Phood – Commissions Scientific Laboratories To Calculate – “Bliss Points’ – That Maximize The Craving For – Sugar, Salt, And Fat – Yet No One Wants To Be Obese

~ TPHTUOTCOMTAC-TPFMDTANITBI-TDNDWIRGFT-TDNCWTRW ~ The Psychologists Have Taught Us Over The Course Of More Than A Century – That People Frequently Make Decisions That Are Not In Their Best Interest – They Do Not Do What Is Really Good For Them – They Do Not Choose What They Really Want

~ WTACFM-TINOFTC-TIAFTP ~ When There Are Completely Free Markets – There Is Not Only Freedom To Choose – There Is Also Freedom To Phish

~ WAPB-WWTRGAF-WWTBNTPWL-WDNWTDA-WTTFOIDHTB-WWODTBIC-A-WAATTL ~ We Are Phisable Because – We Want To Reciprocate Gifts And Favors – We Want To Be Nice To People We Like – We Do Not Want To Disobey Authority – We Tend To Follow Others In Deciding How To Behave – We Want Our Decisions To Be Internally Consistent – And – We Are Averse To Taking Losses

~ NTDB-OITOORT-A-OITOOMOTST-MAGDTOL-IAMRWJLPB-FTC-LTSEP ~ Noticing The Difference Between – Optimality In Terms Of Our Real Tastes – And – Optimality In Terms Of Our Monkey-On-The-Shoulder Tastes – Makes A Great Difference To Our Lives – It’s A Major Reason Why Just Letting People Be – Free To Choose – Leads To Serious Economic Problems

~ TMG-TBWTPFMITLTPT-B-JBWCSTMDNMIT ~ The Mantra Goes – The Best Way To Police Financial Markets Is To Let Them Police Themselves – But – Just Because We Can Say The Mantra Does Not Make It True

~ RM-TM-O-LDDDFP-OW-WRFI ~ Reputation Mining – The More-Or-Less Deliberate Drawing Down For Profit – Of Hard-Won Reputation For Integrity

~ TEO-‘RB’-WTWE ~ The Era Of – “Relational Banking” – Where Trust Was Essential

~ HDIATIBC-STTWNLTFOTB? ~ How Did Incentives At The Investment Banks Change – So That Trust Was No Longer The Foundation Of Their Business?

~ TEO-‘PTCIF’-CNLBTFG ~ The Ethic Of – “Placing The Client’s Interest First” – Can No Longer Be Taken For Granted

~ TCOIFRPFBIOSR ~ The Conflict Of Interest From Ratings Paid For By Issuers Of Securities Remains

~ RSOTLFPCBHRITFS ~ Relatively Small Opportunities To Loot For Profit Can Bring Huge Risks Into The Financial System

~ ORTPIR ~ One Response To Phishing Is Regulation

~ NIATIDNIYEP-SOT-I-GNWTPFP ~ New Ideas And Technical Innovation Do No Invariably Yield Economic Progress – Some Of Them – Instead – Give New Ways To Phish For Phools

~ TAI-WDATP-SSM-A-SIMCF ~ There Are Idealists – Who Draw Attention To Phishing – Start Social Movements – And – Set In Motion Corrective Forces

~ THMNTITON-MOOTFAPSTAC-MACBVAGSOIOOTMNIOM ~ The Human Mind Naturally Thinks In Terms Of Narratives – Much Of Our Thought Follows A Pattern Similar To A Conversation – Most Advertising Can Be Viewed As Grafting Stories Of Its Own Onto The Mental Narratives In Our Minds

~ MSTNTMAA-BPAP-WAHTP ~ Modern Statistical Techniques Now Tell Marketers And Advertisers – Both Private And Political – Where And How To Phish

~ TWOAAMISAGTRMACTRS ~ The World Of Advertising And Marketing Is Still About Getting The Right Message And Creating The Right Story

~ BAOTBOFMSNABUTTD ~ Being Aware Of The Benefits Of Free Markets Should Not Also Blind Us To Their Defects

~ RE-PAAATR ~ Rankings Everywhere – People Are Addictively Attracted To Rankings

~ CTCR-AEAARAB ~ Compared To Cancer Research – Alcohol Epidemiology And Alcohol Research Are Backwaters

~ BFP ~ Bankruptcy For Profit

~ TCWKDTR ~ The Can Was Kicked Down The Road

~ TROMFR ~ The Role Of Misleading Financial Ratings

~ SE-PNCS-B-IF-WLIACOP ~ Standard Economics – Presumes No Civil Society – But – In Fact – We Live In A Community Of People

~ MP-ISWOO-COGNBOTO-‘S’-PATT-S-TAISTOSWANO ~ Most Phishing – In Some Way Or Other – Consists Of Grafting New Branches Onto The Old – “Stories” – People Are Telling Themselves – Sometimes – It Also Involves Supplanting The Old Story With A New One

~ MEIFTGWDAT-PNASTDHBSUTR ~ Modern Economics Inherently Fails To Grapple With Deception And Trickery – Peoples Naiveté And Susceptibility To Deception Have Been Swept Under The Rug

~ TPHTLOTDM ~ The Psychologists Have Their Lists Of These Dysfunctional Motivations

~ SODAUBOTSWATOAOS-TGUATCOM-TAUTUHMPFPH-TSAQM-JCPFAOCCTDTM ~ Since Our Decisions Are Usually Based On The Stories We Are Telling Ourselves About Our Situation – This Give Us A Transparent Characterization Of Motivation – That Allows Us To Understand How Most Phishing For Phools Happens – These Stories Are Quite Manipulable – Just Change People’s Focus And One Can Change The Decisions They Make

MARI SWINGLE ~ I-MINDS ~ 2016

~ DTOOO-WAIA ~ Due To Our Own Overarousal – We Are Increasingly Annoyed

~ TLAOL ~ The Lost Art Of Leisure

~ WHMFBGOIATGI-TA ~ We Have Moved Far Beyond Gaming Or Internet Addiction To Generalize I-Tech Addiction

~ AAC-MEOADA-W-I-A-D-ADHD-SI ~ Across All Cultures – Mounting Evidence Of A Definite Association – With – I-Addiction – Depression – ADHD – Suicidal Ideation

~ AD ~ Alpha Deregulation

~ TDED:AITAHULES-A-EUDUNH ~ The Double-Edged Delusion: All I-Tech Are Helping Us Learn Exquisite Skills – And – Excessive Usage Does Us No Harm

~ EGCBAMITSWASA ~ Excessive Gaming Changes Brain Activity Much In The Same Way As Substance Abuse

~ AGMWBT-NEIAI-ATLYOYC-E-SI-B-O-

~ FLC-TPDPATH ~ For Little Children – The Potential Developmental Perils Are Too High

~ I-TSNRHIOHP-IWCT-ISBIAT-NARF-

~ KDOWALTGS-EAAANSWPOI-

~ O-G-O-S-HTBALBB-O-TBDNLTL-

~ B-AAWS-LANFP ~ Babies – Although Attentively Watching Screens – Learn Absolutely Nothing From Programs

~ UFRSO-DBITEHAPI-GTICF-PTIYET-

~ TIMETTEIODMIICTBOIIMCPOD-

~ SOPHFACBETVATDOAD-

~ THSIFOVD-AOTCWCATGE-

~ LKDCI-MBNAMTAOTGOD ~ Little Kids Don’t Crave I-Media By Nature Any More Than Any Other Toy, Game, Or Device

~ TDE ~ The Disinhibition Effect

~ ITP-TBCUFR-TTC ~ In The Past – The Bullied Could Usually Find Refuge – Today They Cannot

~ SATN:D-D-A-TDOI ~ Sex And The Net: Desensitization – Disinhibition – And – The Death Of Intimacy

~ MPNBTNTCWOATRSDOSV ~ Many People Now Believe They Need To Compete With Online Activity To Remain Sexually Desirable Or Sexually Valid

~ WCBIAOTIAI-T-TIHMMAATP ~ We Can’t Blame It All On The Internet And I-Tech – The Internet Has Merely Magnified And Accelerated The Process

~ SFMIISOAEO-TTEORL ~ Sexuality For Males Is Increasingly Sought Out And Expressed Online – To The Exclusion Of Real Life

~ ATPOCHBFTBSRTDAA ~ Addiction To Pornography Or Cybersex Has Been Found To Be Specifically Related To Depression And Anxiety

~ FOMO ~ Fear Of Missing Out

~ IMBTMAOTTCOTMTITTA ~ It May Be The Medium As Opposed To The Content Of The Medium That Is The True Addiction

~ GIA ~ Generalized Internet Addiction

~ FIA ~ Fantasy Internet Addiction

~ TIA ~ Technological Internet Addiction

~ WWHFTAIWIHTOBITGEOLOI-T ~ What We Have Forgotten To Ask Is What Is Happening To Our Brains In This Great Experiment Of Life On I-Tech

~ C ~ Cyberchondria

~ BLNLTT-TS-RU-DU ~ But Let’s Not Let This Tool – This System – Rule Us – Deregulate Us

~ SOB ~ Setting Of Boundaries

~ TBP! ~ Take Back Play!

VIKTOR FRANKL ~ MAN’S SEARCH FOR MEANING

~ TLITS-TSITFMITS ~ To Live Is To Suffer – To Survive Is To Find Meaning In The Suffering

~ [S]HWHA-‘W’TLCBWAA-’H’ ~ [S]He Who Has A – “Why” – To Live Can Bear With Almost Any – “How”

~ SWFYPBYHFTTAI ~ Success Will Follow You Precisely Because You Had Forgotten To Think About It

~ NSRIAESCFADR ~ No Situation Repeats Itself And Each Situation Calls For A Different Response

~ NPOECTFYWYHE ~ No Power On Earth Can Take From You What You Have Experienced

~ AOTSIPOAAROTOTS ~ Actualization Of The Self Is Possible Only As A Result Of Transcendence Of The Self

~ TMOLACBINCTB ~ The Meaning Of Life Always Changes But It Never Ceases To Be

~ ACTLTIOMPTOP ~ A Challenge To Live Thoughts Instead Of Merely Putting Them On Paper

~ LAI-YWLFTST-AHAAWTFTAYAATAN ~ Live As If – You Were Living For The Second Time – And Had Acted As Wrongly The First Time As You Are About To Act Now

HAL NIEDZVIECKI ~ HELLO, I’M SPECIAL ~ 2004

~ MOO-‘N’-COTWWHTNTFOSSAT ~ Millions Of Otherwise – “Normal” – Citizens Of The Western World Harbour The Notion That Fame Of Some Sort Awaits Them

~ TOAOS-D-TECCLAC ~ The Outward Appearance Of Specialness – Despite – Their Essentially Conformist, Conservative Lives And Convictions

~ ITIASCITEOIATNC-IITUPOC ~ If There Is A Single Constant In The Emergence Of Individuality As The New Conformity – It Is The Ubiquitous Presence Of Celebrity

~ NODWHMCTE-B-NCOCSTBCE ~ Not Only Do We Have More Celebrities Than Ever – But – New Categories Of Celebrities Seem To Be Constantly Emerging

~ MASFWTJTPPOS ~ Millions Are Searching For Ways To Join The Permanent Party Of Special

~ TNAOTNC ~ The New Age Of The New Conformity

~ CWHASOTWTT-TNCIWET ~ Can We Have A Sense Of Tradition Without Traditional Tradition? – The New Conforming Individualists Want Exactly That

~ NWCMBF ~ Now We Crave More Better Faster

~ TSRF ~ The Self-Reliance Fantasy

~ TL-TW-R-I-R ~ Tradition-Lite – Tradition Without – Responsibility – Involvement – Requirement

~ S-TITNLAPSAMIEFUQ-HB-SFFDR-UTY ~ Suddenly – The Institution That Not Long Ago Provided Stability And Meaning In Exchange For Unquestioning Acceptance – Has Become – Subjective, Flexible, Flawed, Debatable, Relative – Up To You

~ EPCNTUS-DO-YTCB-SSNDS ~ Every Pop-Culture Narrative Tells Us That – Despite Ordinariness – You Too Can Be – Special, Super, Noticed, Discovered, Successful

~ TMOPCIATOTTOTOP-W-ITPOFHOHH-BTSABTE-ALTL-BSCR-ICHTYH ~ The Message Of Pop Culture Is Always That Of The Triumph Of The Ordinary Person – Who – In The Process Of Following His Or Her Heart – Bucks The System And Becomes The Exception – A Larger-Than-Life – But Still Completely Regular – It-Could-Happen-To-You Hero

~ TIATW ~ Trapped In A Theme World

~ BPCDSWAUIAATS-NDPTUHTGNUSCOOR ~ But Pop Culture Doesn’t Specify What About Us Is Actually All That Special – Nor Does Pop Tell Us How To Garner Notice Upon Successful Completion Of Our Reinvention

~ FOULOATAMDFPC ~ Few Of Us Lack Opinions And Thoughts And Memories Derived From Pop Culture

~ CWS-CWHETROIMF ~ Celebrity Worship Syndrome – Celebrity Worship Has Entered The Realm Of Identifiable Mental Diseases

~ TMTAPSW-TV-TMMTPS ~ The More Time A Person Spends Watching – TV – The More Money That Person Spends

~ TFOTOPTISHBAUF-EITU ~ The Fantasy Of The Ordinary Person Turned International Success Has Become A Universal Fantasy – Encoded In The Unconscious

~ OEAR-BTWWLI-TWWM!-IUTFWOOPCPU ~ Our Expectations Are Raised – But The World We Live In – The World We Made! – Is Unable To Fulfill What Our Own Pop Culture Promises Us

~ ITNC-WTTSFGADNSOI-I-WBWT-IMBPTETS-AT-AOESBDTFOWTSW-STWCFTN ~ In The New Conformity – We Take The System For Granted And Do Not Seriously Oppose It – Instead – We Believe Wholeheartedly That – It May Be Possible To Enter The System – And That – All Our Energies Should Be Directed Toward Figuring Out What The System Wants – So That We Can Fulfill That Need

~ TFITAFTS-AHIW-AABATI-YJDTHE ~ The Focus Is Turned Away From The System – And How It Works – And Aimed Back At The Individual – You Just Didn’t Try Hard Enough

~ TSEIPTEO-Y-B-DAEOTOSIWWLOL ~ The Self-Esteem Industry Places The Emphasis On – You – But – Discourages Any Examination Of The Overall System In Which We Live Our Lives

~ BFTPAERLARPOTCOPS-SEM-TUTIFAL-CUTALODAR-WBTWAATSOOF ~ By Failing To Present Anything Even Remotely Like A Realistic Picture Of The Chances Of Pop Success – Self-Esteem Mythology – Teaches Us To Internalize Failures And Limitations – Conditions Us To Accept Lives Of Disappointment And Regret – We Believe That We Are Always The Source Of Our Failures

~ TOLAIAPCPTCRBR-WFOITBWWSOSOA-OF-OF ~ Though Our Lives Are Steeped In A Pop-Culture Promise That Can Rarely Be Realized – We Feel Our Inability To Become Whatever We’ve Set Our Sights On As – Our Fault – Our Failure

~ WWSTMWITROC-TWCH ~ What We Seem To Most Want Is To Replicate Our Celebrities – This We Cannot Have

~ TNC-TSFTWI ~ The New Conformity – The Search For The Way In

~ SABTTSWLI-ASCWPIAWTCOIBAR-TINCWTMOTS-BEWKITS ~ Subjected And Bound To The Systems We Live In – Any Surface Change We Perform Is Always Within The Confines Of Intense Bureaucracy And Regulation – There Is No Clear Way To Move Outside The System – Because Everything We Know Is The System

~ EFTTP ~ Escape From The Theme Park

~ TLB-CD-A-UOSAPTETPWAFAISA-IATO ~ The Line Between – Chronicling Dissent – And – Using One’s Status As Protester To Enter The Pop World And Further An I’m Special Agenda – Is A Thin One

~ WLIACW-EIP-EIC-EIAOITQFS-ETTTAATL(BRCN) ~ We Live In A Culture Where – Everything Is Permissible – Everything Is Celebrated – Everything Is An Option In The Quest For Special – Even Those Things That Are Against The Law (But Relentlessly Celebrated Nevertheless)

~ ACIWIINLPTAGDIADC ~ A Culture In Which It Is No Longer Possible To Author Genuine Dissent Is A Dying Culture

~ RAUTNCOSIAHSTMF ~ Recognizing And Understanding The New Conformity Of Special Is A Huge Step Toward Moving Forward

DAVID BOHM ~ ON DIALOGUE

~IPATC-TWT-THTBATCSIC-STTSITMDAA-RTS-CFAATTO ~ If People Are To Cooperate – To Work Together – They Have To Be Able To Create Something In Common – Something That Takes Shape In Their Mutual Discussions And Actions – Rather Than Something Conveyed From An Authority To The Others

~ IWKOTTTWITSFOC-TWAGTEIISOW-AWAGTMAPS ~ If We Keep On Thinking That The World Is There Solely For Our Convenience – Then We Are Going To Exploit It In Some Other Way – And We Are Going To Make Another Problem Somewhere

~ TDIBAAETTMBW-TITP ~ Thought Defends Its Basic Assumptions Against Evidence That They May Be Wrong – Thought Is The Problem

~ ABNFADWBFPTSIAC-SAGADFA-IAFDC ~ A Basic Notion For A Dialogue Would Be For People To Sit In A Circle – Such A Geometric Arrangement Doesn’t Favor Anybody – It Allows For Direct Communication

~ IP-TDSW-WAL-A-WAA ~ In Principle – The Dialogue Should Work – Without Any Leader – And – Without Any Agenda

~ IMBUTHAFTGTGG-WKAWOIFAW-PWBTLRTDLALOTD ~ It May Be Useful To Have A Facilitator To Get The Group Going – Who Keeps A Watch On It For A While – People Would Begin To Learn Really To Depend Less And Less On The Facilitator

~ TWOSHBOTBTWCFWL-B-MWC ~ The Whole Of Society Has Been Organized To Believe That We Can’t Function Without Leaders – But – Maybe We Can

~ IIITUTADGINATGOSK-WANTTCAH-TIMHAAB ~ It Is Important To Understand That A Dialogue Group Is Not A Therapy Group Of Some Kind – We Are Not Trying To Cure Anybody Here – Though It May Happen As A Byproduct

~ ITDGWANGTDWTDAA-TIC-OWANF-WMHAESWWANOTDA-NCTAC-OPIRRCCIT-IYWTCTAP ~ In The Dialogue Group We Are Not Going To Decide What To Do About Anything – This Is Crucial – Otherwise We Are Not Free – We Must Have An Empty Space Where We Are Not Obliged To Do Anything – Nor Come To Any Conclusions – Our Purpose Is Really To Communicate Coherently In Truth – If You Want To Call That A Purpose

~ PWCTAGWDIAA-NIFACWOP ~ People Will Come To A Group With Different Interests And Assumptions – Negotiating Involves Finding A Common Way Of Proceeding

~ AGDOWNITCTBDTTFON-PAGNRTGITDIWTFHWTCTBAD ~ A Great Deal Of What Nowadays Is Typically Considered To Be Dialogue Tends To Focus On Negotiation – People Are Generally Not Ready To Go Into The Deeper Issues When They First Have What They Consider To Be A Dialogue

~ TPINTEAFDGF-BR-OTLLETMAC ~ The Point Is Not To Establish A Fixed Dialogue Group Forever – But Rather – One That Lasts Long Enough To Make A Change

~ ACIALORAPAI-STWCLT-BIOWIWHAC-WITWS-MSPAV-OIFA -~ A Society Is A Link Of Relationships Among People And Institutions – So That We Can Live Together – But It Only Works If We Have A Culture – Which Implies That We Share – Meaning, Significance, Purpose, And Value – Otherwise It Falls Apart

~ D-FPTRWIOEOMWCTACOJ ~ Dialogue – For People To Realize What Is On Each Other’s Minds Without Coming To Any Conclusions Or Judgments

~ ITCITL-EWOWTCC-YAITGWTS ~ If You Can Influence The Leaders – Either With Or Without Their Conscious Cooperation – You Automatically Influence The Group Which They Sway

~ BPUAOC-O-MANO-TPCSSAWMOGE ~ By Playing Upon An Old Cliche – Or – Manipulating A New One – The Propagandist Can Sometimes Swing A Whole Mass Of Group Emotions

~ TL-WLTATAPC-WDSOIICBMTTTOI ~ The Leaders – Who Lend Their Authority To Any Propaganda Campaign – Will Do So Only If It Can Be Made To Touch Their Own Interests

~ EAAMBCIOTPIIC ~ Events And Activities Must Be Created In Order To Put Ideas Into Circulation

~ TLISTBAUEABTSC ~ The Law Isn’t Supposed To Be About Unspoken Excuses And Behind-The-Scenes Calculations

~ DWYLISF-BWYLIDBWYT-ATIOAPWIF ~ Doing What You Like Is Seldom Freedom – Because What You Like Is Determined By What You Think – And That Is Often A Pattern Which Is Fixed

~ T-‘P’-IIALAYKOPIATTBYT-THTBISSAOIC ~ The – “Problem” – Is Insoluble As Long As You Keep On Producing It All The Time By Your Thought – Thought Has To Be In Some Sense Aware Of Its Consequences

~ TOSITHM-P-P-TCAMSTYCSTROYT-YHTSYI ~ The Point Of Suspension Is To Help Make – Proprioception – Possible – To Create A Mirror So That You Can See The Results Of Your Thought – You Have To See Your Intention

~ ITB-PWTEO-ITSTIOTD-TWWWI-A-ATSTKEO-TBTTEO ~ In The Beginning – People Won’t Trust Each Other – If They See The Importance Of The Dialogue – They Will Work With It – And – As They Start To Know Each Other – They Begin To Trust Each Other

~ TOOADINTAT-O-TWAA-OTEO-R-IITS-O ~ The Object Of A Dialogue Is Not To Analyze Things – Or – To Win An Argument – Or To Exchange Opinions – Rather – It Is To Suspend – Opinions

~ IWCSWAOOOM-TWASACC-EIWDAE ~ If We Can See What All Of Our Opinions Mean – Then We Are Sharing A Common Content – Even If We Don’t Agree Entirely

~ IMTOTTOANRVI-TAAA-WCJSSTAOTM-TEU-NTWHCI ~ It May Turn Out That The Opinions Are Not Really Very Important – They Are All Assumptions – We Can Just Simply Share The Appreciation Of The Meanings –– Truth Emerges Unannounced – Not That We Have Chosen It

~ IWAHDAADT-EPITGTHADC-BWWRTITOPA ~ If We All Have Different Assumptions And Defend Them – Each Person Is Then Going To Have A Different Content – Because We Won’t Really Take In The Other Person’s Assumptions

~ TINPIBPOC-TNRCOR-ISIR-YDNTBP-ISHTPY-TTIPSDAI ~ There Is No Point In Being Persuaded Or Convinced – That’s Not Really Coherent Or Rational – If Something Is Right – You Don’t Need To Be Persuaded – If Somebody Has To Persuade You – Then There Is Probably Some Doubt About It

~ TINRTHTAAITIETIINR-TPSOAAOOAOITIIOTETIMNBR ~ There Is No Reason To Hold To An Assumption If There Is Evidence That It Is Not Right – The Proper Structure Of An Assumption Or Of An Opinion Is That It Is Open To Evidence That It May Not Be Right

~ TDNEFO-IMEFSE-PFAMFMOTTM ~ Truth Does Not Emerge From Opinions – It Must Emerge From Something Else – Perhaps From A More Free Movement Of The Tacit Mind

~ EIOFWP-WWAW-CPIADB-OTATT ~ Even If One Faction Won’t Participate – We Who Are Willing – Can Participate In A Dialogue Between – Our Thought And Their Thought

~ GPHTTA-ATANTT ~ Generally People Hold To Their Assumptions – So They Are Not Thinking Together

~ TINPITDFTPOAAH-WWTBFOHAAAWM-WWCLABTA ~ There Is No Place In The Dialogue For The Principle Of Authority And Hierarchy – We Want To Be Free Of Hierarchy And Authority As We Move – Where We Can Let Anything Be Talked About

~ TPITGPTCTKEOA-AKWTA ~ The Principle Is To Get People To Come To Know Each Other’s Assumptions – And Know What They Are

~ MOOT-IIGF-INI-IOITWC-AIPU-WPIU-ACFP-FF-FS-FN-FB-ASO-WSCPOIWWL-AWMROP-BS-IACFTP ~ Most Of Our Thought – In Its General Form – Is Not Individual – It Originates In The Whole Culture – And It Pervades Us – We Pick It Up – As Children From Parents – From Friends – From School – From Newspapers – From Books – And So On – We Select Certain Parts Of It Which We Like – And We May Reject Other Parts – But Still – It All Comes From That Pool

TWYES-DOHYRI-O-MI ~ The Way You Experience Something – Depends On How You Represent It – Or Misrepresent It

~ NWDSTOAAATNOOO-B-TAA-TWWST-TWWET-A-C-TTTWWTD ~ Normally We Don’t See That Our Assumptions Are Affecting The Nature Of Our Observations – But – The Assumptions Affect – The Way We See Things – The Way We Experience Them – And – Consequently – The Things That We Want To Do

~ WHGTL-S-TOT-TSWIID-WCABATTRIOWO-WCABATTRIPWO ~ We Have Got To Learn – Somehow – To Observe Thought – To See What It Is Doing – Be Attentive To The Results It Produces Within Ourselves – Even – Of How It Affects Perception